Helping single Christian women, age 30-40s, upgrade their dating and love lives (so they can be ready for a fulfilling romantic relationship)

Jeanie Tillman,  CPC, EL MP, MBA, BS

Jeanie Tillman, CPC, EL MP, MBA, BS

I’m Jeanie Tillman, a certified professional coach.

Perhaps you would like to transform a dead dating life into an active one, or stop the insanity of endless dating.

Maybe you dream about being with an amazing man only to face the reality of zero dates. Perhaps you’re not even meeting potentials, either because you haven’t taken the effort or don’t know where to start (and perhaps scared silly to try). Instead, you spend your weekends bingeing on the latest Netflix shows, or other distractions.

Or, Perhaps you’re tired of going on multiple dates with nothing to show for it. You want to give it up altogether, or at least recover from the recent round of what seems like endless dating. You wonder why “more” dating feels like it’s moving you further away from finding the kind of guy you’re looking for, instead of closer.

Maybe you’re regularly in a serious relationship and have little experience being single. Yet you question how fulfilling these relationships are. You might desire more but you stick with it. After all, you care for the other person, and what more do you need? Yet there’s a sneaking suspicion you might want a lot more…

Or you’ve experienced the pain from failed relationships. The crushed hopes and dreams from that broken marriage, or the bitter disappointment after it ended with your boyfriend. Any of which can leave you dreading the dating world and the idea of another relationship.

I help you move from your current stage of dating, to the next.

  1. The first stage, is the dead zone. You would like to have an active dating life but you’re stuck right where you are. I’ll help you pinpoint what is keeping you stuck so you can move to socializing….

  2. Socializing is where you are starting to mix with single men. You’re getting comfortable and confident, or you’re arranging your time and being intentional.

  3. You are actively dating. You are going out on dates with men on a reoccurring basis and in the discovery phase.

  4. Refining is when you start to hone in on people who really interest you. The idea here is more quality less quantity.

  5. Exclusive is where you have each chosen each other and you have quit dating other people.

It’s important to note that you can be at any level and technically not be making progress. For instance, being stuck at level 5 could look like being in a serious relationship with a man—you try to be happy with him, but feel something is missing. Or you could be stuck at 3 and be dating a lot without ever being able to narrow the pool down to men who peak your interest.

Now, there's nothing wrong with being single. Some make it their life choice (to the dismay of Christians everywhere who want to see singles married).


If you're tired of a less-than-satisfying (or non-existent) dating life, and want another option, you're at the right place.

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Before coaching with Jeanie, I gave without expecting much in return, now I look to get as much as I give in dating relationships— knowing that I deserve it. I am much more confident when going out, and if a date doesn’t like me, that’s ok. Dating is much lighter and fun after coaching! I now stay in the moment and am no longer pinning my hopes on others or waiting to be “good enough.” Not only that, but the quality of men I date has improved. I’m dating men who are a better overall fit for me. I’m talking to eight guys at the moment, and I’m just getting started!
— Marie N.