I help Christian women, in their 30’s and 40’s who are tired of putting more into a relationship than their partners, date men they are actually excited about so they can finally have a fulfilling relationship.
So. You’re one of the “nice” ones. You often put others’ needs ahead of your own, in fact, you are great at thinking of others… but sometimes you can’t hear your own voice.
Maybe you have a long history of dating relationships where you give more than you get—you’re giving 110 percent while he’s just not that “into it.”
You’re big-hearted and you really don’t mind putting a lot of energy into a person or relationship. You want to see your partner succeed, be happy, and ease their burden when possible. After all, isn’t this what your Christian upbringing taught you? To put others’ needs ahead of your own? To help out when you can? All your work and help make you feel good…
Then maybe you start feeling a little…resentful. When did the relationship start revolving around the other person anyways? You have needs too. Does anyone care about those?
Or you just lose steam and feel drained. What else does he need? Perhaps you start dreading the relationship itself. Or maybe your partner finds “greener pastures” after you’ve put so much work into the relationship.
You’re big-hearted, intelligent, and fun. So why do you keep getting less than you want in a partner?
In relationships, are you:
Tired of dating men you’re not thrilled about
Giving without a second thought, to later feel resentful and drained
Sometimes struggling to understand what you want
Feeling completely depleted after break ups
Not attracting the guys you want
Doubting that any good men are left
Trying so hard without seeing results and doubting yourself at every turn
Wondering if you’re doing things right
Lacking direction in dating
Uncomfortable stating your needs in dating because you don’t want to seem high-maintenance or demanding
What if, instead you could:
Feel like you’re getting as much as you’re giving in a relationship
Have confidence in the dating choices you make
Maintain your energy in dating
Feel excited about the man you’re dating, and know he cares for you
Feel balance and peace in dating and love
Say goodbye to settling
Whether you’re getting back into dating or wishing to date better, I want to help you find a man who is just as invested in your happiness as you are in his.
As a “nice” woman you have so much going for you and I don’t want you, wonderful woman, to sacrifice in your love life. I want to put you back into the love equation, by helping you get in touch with your voice and needs, so you can find a man that excites you and is a good fit (instead of wasting time with ones that aren’t).