I help Christian “nice girls” in their 30’s and 40’s create balance, authenticity and movement in dating so they can have the love life they really want.
You've been told you're big-hearted, sweet or a “nice Christian girl.” These are great qualities! Unless...
...they’re getting in the way of the love life you want.
Do you tend to focus on your partner and not get your own needs met in relationships? Maybe you have a history giving 110 percent while he’s not that “into it.”
You’re big-hearted and don’t mind putting a lot of energy into a person or relationship. You want to see your partner succeed, be happy, and ease their burden. After all, isn’t this what your Christian upbringing taught you? To put others’ needs ahead of your own...?
Yet, as the relationship progresses you start feeling a little…resentful. When did the relationship start revolving around him anyway?
Or, maybe you put yourself, and your love life, last. Which might mean you settle with what comes along, leaving you with disappointing results. You might have “made it work” in the past but there was no life in the relationship.
Or maybe haven't dated much, or haven't taken the effort to meet new men (and maybe scared silly to even try).
Now, there's nothing wrong with being single. Some make it their life choice (to the complete astonishment of many Christians who want to see singles everywhere married).
… If you're tired of less-than-satisfying results or a non-existent dating life, and want another option, you're at the right place.
You might be:
Tired of dating men you’re not thrilled about
Giving without a second thought, to later feel resentful and drained
Struggling to understand what you want
Attracting the wrong guys
Doubting that any good men are left
Trying so hard without seeing results
Doubting yourself at every turn and wondering if you’re doing things right
Lacking direction in dating
Uncomfortable stating your needs in dating (you don’t want to seem high-maintenance or demanding)
What if, instead you could:
Feel like you’re getting as much as you’re giving in a relationship
Have confidence in the dating choices you make
Maintain your energy in dating
Feel excited about the man you’re dating, and know he cares for you
Feel balance and peace in dating
Say goodbye to settling
Feel like you’re dating your way
Get better results while exerting less effort
Waste less time
You’re big-hearted, intelligent, and fun. So why do you keep getting less than you want in dating?
As a “nice” woman you have so much going for you and I don’t want you, wonderful woman, to sacrifice in your love life. I want to help you get in touch with your voice and desires, so you can find a man that excites you and bring peace and balance into your relationships.